Maybe it is that I grew up in North Idaho and was not even raised by wolves, so I never got a bunch of the pre-programming on how society should run. As a result, it has always baffled me that people are so obsessed with who is sleeping with who and who is getting married π°π» π€΅π»
At least in my book, who you have sex with, who you make love with, and who you marry (yes, those are all different) should only be the concern of the people directly involved. There are no rules about love, marriage and sex except the ones we as a society have made up. πππ
With 2020 looming large in the headlights, I encourage you to stop for a moment and consider what rules you are playing by that were handed to you by someone else. Take the time to really think about if those are the rules you want to play by or if you want something different. If you do, then go for it and make it happen and stop worrying about the haters. π¦Ύπ¦Ύπ¦Ύ.
This by the way applies to all of life. Don’t limit yourself, be who YOU want to be.